Examples of Talking Dirty: Vol 5

How To Talk Dirty Like A Weird British Gal

Well hello there!

After a few weeks of madness, I'm back in action.

And "action" couldn't be a better word to describe this weeks segment.

Lights-Camera-Action-Bizzare

Check out this weeks footage of what appears to be a "professional" dirty talking gal with a heavy following. Who is she? I have no idea.

Why did I include this example of talking dirty? Just watch:







HA!

My sentiments exactly.

But...what the hell is the POINT of this video if I'm trying to learn how to talk dirty?

I'll tell you. There's a VERY VERY VALUABLE LESSON here.

Even though this video is obviously a joke, there's a moral to this story.

And the moral of the story is....

HAVE FUN WITH THIS!

This isn't life or death, good or bad, right or wrong. Doom and judgment do NOT have room in these here walls.

This is about freedom and self expression. LET GO and HAVE FUN.

/End Moral

Now...how funny would it be to actually DO THIS?

Tell you what: I'll do this with my partner if YOU do. I think we can both agree that this would most defiantly break the ice lol.

Till Next Time!

Examples Of Talking Dirty: Vol 4

Examples of Talking Dirty: Crazy Lady on the Street

Hey ya'll

Today I found a video that i can almost guarantee that NO ONE has seen before.

Seriously. Not only is it a little strange but it was taken by some guys with their digital camera on the street. (Actually, the mere fact that these people are posted up on the street is bizarre enough.)

Regardless, there's a valuable lesson in this video about learning how to talk dirty.

Here it is:




What'd I tell ya? lol

This lady is obviously a little out there. BUT...there's one thing thats super valuable to take from this.

Its something that every girl should embrace.

Its something that seems so easy and obvious, but at the same time one of the biggest challenges that women deal with every day.

Its the "I don't give a fuck" attitude.

Think about it: This women doesn't care at all...about anything.

She doesn't care AT ALL what people think of her. She's extremely comfortable expressing herself openly.

Now...I'm not saying to go be some crazy lady on the street corner. I'm also not saying to stop caring about everything in your life.

But what I AM saying is this: Caring what people think about you will ruin your life.

I guess the real thing to discover here is to find balance between Caring about your life and NOT caring what people think about it.

I know...its pretty deep stuff. Its also NOT something that can be done easily (or something you'd expect to find in an "examples of talking dirty" blog).

But the reality of the situation is that the less you care about what people think, the less you judge yourself. The less you judge yourself, the easier it will be to let loose and NOT HOLD BACK anything....especially in the bedroom.

Ask Yourself This: What is the #1 thing thats holding me back from being the sexual goddess I know I am?

Post your comments, I'd love to hear what you have to say!

Examples of Talking Dirty: Vol 3

Examples Of Talking Dirty: Leah On Phone Sex

Tonight we introduce Leah.

Leah is a hilarious girl who's done quite a job on YouTube
with her video reel...gaining 6000+ subsribers in the last
year and a half.

Leah has a series on YouTube called WehoGirls in which she
has a couple episodes where she plays a phone sex operator.

This video here is an example of her "doing her job" while
doing things around the house. Its a spoof video but there
are a couple of things I would like to make mention of.

Check it out...




(Note: Here's a little disclaimer)

DO NOT FAKE YOUR DIRTY TALK IN REAL LIFE

Ok, now that we got that out of the way, lets get into it.

Pay special attention to the way Leah talks in this video.
She's taking on a persona...a sexy alter ego for talking dirty.

Obviously, she's not really into what she's saying...as you
can tell by the way she integrates things around her house into
her content...but the character is still there.

The tonality in her voice and the image it portrays are excellent
examples of talking dirty.

(Hint: Just imagine if she actually meant what she was saying!)

Heres the bottom line: Develop your sexual character and let her talk.

Its always easier to "play the part" then transform your inner self, initially.
Its an ego thing. We can protect our ego by pretending to be another person,
then if anything negative happens we can pawn it off to our "alter" ego.

What I mean is this: You gotta figure out what it is YOU like, and where YOUR
inner sex goddess comes from. Give her an image, an identity, and a role.

Then, when talking dirty to your partner, let her out of her cage.

This is a great first step when fully embracing your sexuality. Eventually,
you and your "alter ego" will be the same person as your "sexual self" emerges.

And its gonna happen. Eventually, you will be able to communicate exactly
what you want exactly when you want it. Your naughty side will become
so natural that you won't even see a difference anymore...at all.

But until then, use these examples of talking dirty to craft your own image
and use her until you are FULLY comfortable in your actions.

But how do you begin to get comfortable? We'll save that for tomorrow!

Examples Of Talking Dirty: Vol 2

Examples of Talking Dirty by Michael Alvear

Hey there

Today we're looking at another video by a guy
named Michael Alvaer. He hosts a podcast
of people doing crazy shit, but this time
it has to do with a girl who tried to talk dirty
and didn't do it very well (you'll see lol)

Take a look:



Review:

I don't necessarily agree with "Rule #1"
Lying isn't "essential to talking dirty".
Knowing what really turns him on is a far
more effective way to go at it. Roleplaying
on the other hand has its own set of rules....

0/5 (worst example of talking dirty IMO)

The second thing he says is much more accurate.
Narrating the dirty things you're doing is hot,
not matter what you actually say. It tells your
man that you're in the moment and enjoying HIM...
not some fantasy you might be playing in your head.

(Hint: Men never know what you're thinking, especially
in bed. If your man's the jealous type he might have
fear of you thinking about another guy!)

Talk openly about what you're doing or what he's
doing to you, and he'll know your "head" is in the game.

4/5

"Oh Yeah Baby"
Great example of talking dirty.
Always works. No matter what

5/5

I love the "preview of cumming attractions" the most.
Telling him what you're going to do and how you're going
to do it will instantly trigger a fantasy in his mind.

(Note: Since the mind and body work together, any hot
mental movie you give him will get him going. This is
why guys love porn. He can watch it and play a new
mental movie...where he's the star.)

Of course, if YOU give him the movie, then YOU are the
star. Thats much better for the both of you.

6/5

Erotic appreciation exercise.

This is cheesey. BUT he does make a good point.
"put your thoughts on speaker." Thats all he wants
to hear...not matter what. So instead of a 0, i'll give
him a couple points on this one

2/5

The last bit brought up a good point that I'd like to expand
on.

Put Your Thoughts On Speaker

This means let go of ANY means of judging yourself.
This also means accepting the dirty things in your head.

(Keep in mind his thoughts are just as dirty, if not MORE
dirty then what you're thinking. He'll be thrilled to hear
whats really on your mind)

I touch on that topic in much more detail in my newsletter
which you can suscribe to in the box to your right.

Thats it for tonight. Be sure to check us out next time for
more examples of talking dirty

Your Friend,

Devi D.

PS. What did you think of this video? Share your thoughts
on the comment bar below!

Examples Of Talking Dirty: Vol 1

Welcome to the First Edition of "Examples Of Talking Dirty on Video"!!

Its good to meet you. I wanted to let you know that I have personally gathered a panel of female experts ranging from adult industry superstars to your average "small town girl" to answer the age old question:

"How do I talk dirty to my boyfriend?"

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Ok enough chit chat. Lets get down to business.

Our first subject goes by the name of Cody Lane. We found this video and were intruiged by the raw sexual nature that she seems to radiate flawlessly (those were one of our girls words, not mine :-)

Watch this video not only for the words (which are minimal) energy.

But before you watch it, do me a favor:

Think long and hard of the time where you were so hot, so turned on that nothing else in the world mattered but satisfying your sexual hunger.

(Don't worry, no one's listening!)

Got it? Ok...here's the first video



Now...what did you notice? What was familiar? What was your initial reaction and how did you feel?

We immediately noticed the intensity of her sexual energy. She's radiating with lust and its beaming off her like a laser. Talk about ZERO inhibitions! But what can empower a woman to embrace her sexuality like that? What do YOU think about it?

The answer to that and more next time...

But for now, its bedtime!

Thanks for reading,

Devi D.

PS. Look in your Google Reader in a couple days for our next edition. Did you sign up yet? I'll go ahead and put the subscription link again so you don't have to scroll up :-)

Nite!